How it turned ugly for beauty school pioneer
September 30th, 2007JUST when she should be celebrating her success as a best-selling author, Debbie Rodriguez’s world has taken a dramatic turn worthy of any work of fiction.
The hairdresser, who was featured in Scotland on Sunday in April, is the author of Kabul Beauty School: An American Woman Goes Behind The Veil, which reached the New York Times non-fiction bestseller top 10, and had its film rights bought by Columbia Pictures.
It told the inspirational story of her journey to Afghanistan to train local women to assert themselves by opening their own hair salons. It also charted her own reinvention and marriage to a former Mujahedin fighter.
Now, though, Rodriguez is back in America, having fled her new home in the wake of repeated threats against her and her family, as part of a conservative backlash that has resulted in the murder of a number of prominent Afghan women.
The dream turned sour when Rodriguez returned to Afghanistan last month after a US book tour. She said she and her 25-year-old son were met with so many threats, including kidnapping and imprisonment, that she feared for their lives and those of people near them.
Days after their arrival, private armed guards hid them in borrowed clothes and whisked them on to a plane.
“It was out of a scary movie,” said Michigan-born Rodriguez, 46, who is now in California. “All I was thinking about was my son - what a horrible thing I had done to my son. We were both petrified.” Now her life, the beauty school and the Oasis Salon she was running are all in flux. She is not sure who to trust - including her now-estranged Afghan husband.
“There was somebody, we don’t know who it was, who was trying to cause problems with the school, first saying I was running a brothel, then saying I was a missionary,” she said.
Rodriguez’s book told harrowing tales of Afghan women who came to learn her trade after surviving subjugation, poverty and abuse. Their real names were concealed, but a British edition initially printed photos of women at the school.
“The girls and I have talked at great length about what the repercussions could be,” Rodriguez said. “They all knew there was a possibility that extremists or the government or anybody who decided they don’t want women to tell the truth could become a problem. We didn’t think it would become a problem so fast.”
All this happened as attacks against women seem to be escalating in Afghanistan, in what is thought to be a cultural backlash as women gain independence. Two prominent female Afghan journalists - Zakia Zaki, who ran Peace Radio, and 22-year-old television reporter Shekiba Sanga Amaaj - were killed this month.
Rodriguez said two women carrying the British edition of her book turned up last month threatening women at the school. She still does not know whether the threat was from the government, extremists or someone wanting to extort money.
Revelations in the book include Rodriguez’s account of helping one young woman fake her virginity on her wedding night. Other women talk about being forced as children into arranged marriages, others of their struggle to escape abusive men.
Rodriguez said she is still in contact with the Afghan hairdressers, who fear for their lives. Following reports that the women had not received promised proceeds from her book, she said she was sending money and trying to help a couple of them relocate.
Despite their ongoing hardships, Kristin Ohlson, the book’s co-author, says Rodriguez had no choice but to flee the country.
“Some people are critical of Debbie now because she fled Kabul in a panic. They accuse her of ripping off her girls’ stories and then running off to enjoy her fortune,” she said via e-mail from Kabul. “This is so unfair.
“For one thing, they have no idea how terrifying it is [in Afghanistan], even when you don’t think you are a target.
“One thing that’s certain is that high-profile women are not very safe here… Debbie has never been a low-profile woman… and I don’t blame her for getting herself and her son out of the country in the way that she did.”
Nicknamed ‘Crazy Deb’ in her hometown of Holland, Michigan, Rodriguez first travelled to Afghanistan with a humanitarian aid group in 2002. There, she realised hairdressing skills were in high demand, and eventually joined forces with the Beauty Without Borders women to start the school in 2003.
Rodriguez said the Kabul Beauty School has trained about 180 women and she is now trying to get ownership transferred from her Afghan husband to a non-profit organisation that would continue her work. Throughout her book, Rodriguez is bold but naive, big-hearted but tough, both heroine and victim. In one chapter, she is travelling solo in a burka through the dangerous Khyber Pass. To the shock of the men sharing her taxi, she whips off her veil and lights a cigarette.
Yet, in several scenes, she’s trying to strengthen her arranged marriage to her Afghan husband, who has another wife and eight children in Saudi Arabia.
She agreed to the marriage because she said she was lonely and casual dating is not an option for women in Afghanistan. Ohlson said she hopes the book at least helps the rest of the world understand the daily struggles of life in Afghanistan.
“I’m not sure people realise how the wounds from the war are still festering, how the Taliban ethos still constricts women’s lives so terribly,” Ohlson said. “So my hope for the book is that people keep thinking about the Afghan people and trying to help in whatever way they can.”
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